Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
It was a beautiful day on Clearwater Beach…the first day of the Memorial Day holiday weekend. And it was a great way to for Anita and Maurice (Mo) to start their new lives together. Family and friends traveled from across the country to share in their special day.
The intimate guest list gathered on the Starlite Majesty Cruise ship for the 12:00pm ceremony. Immediately following, we set sail into the Intercoastal Waterway, and were treated to breathtaking views of Clearwater Beach.
The bride desired a simple and meaningful day, and that is exactly what she received! The bright yellow colors in her flowers, centerpieces and linen were perfect for the occasion and the season. Their guest book and cake, complete with sea shells, set the tone for their nautical nuptials. And the guests raved over the homemade cookies made (with love) by the bride’s mom.
I’ve never had a groom rave so much about wedding planning, but Mo was really pleased with our services and sees the value of hiring a wedding coordinator!
All photos courtesy of Rachel O'Brien Photography.
Many thanks to Brides N Blooms (flowers), Starlite Majesty (venue and catering), Rachel O’Brien Photography, Ronay’s Designs (linen) and Publix Bakery (cake) for such great service!
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
It been said that men and women are from two different planets, particularly in the ways we communicate. Men tend to be more matter-of-fact and are concerned about 'what' (i.e., what do you need me to do?), while women tend to be more sensitive and are concerned about 'how' (i.e., how do you feel?). These are generalizations, of course, but how do two people who come from two different perspectives mesh when it comes to communication? These 5 tips are based on my own experiences as a wife and my observations in working with engaged couples. Whether you're married or engaged to be married, the concepts are applicable to you!
Start with the right attitude
And what is the right attitude, you may ask? What if you need to have a conversation with your fiance' to try to resolve a disagreement, or to let him know how you feel about a particular issue. Before you begin, try to calm whatever negative feelings you may have. If you are mad, the last thing you need to do is start speaking with anger in your voice and showing it in your demeanor. If you have been crying, try to calm yourself down before you speak. Your sadness or anger will get in the way of the other party hearing what you have to say!
Have an open mind
As your fiance' is talking to you, be open to what he has to say. Keep in mind that you are not a mind reader, so you need to be receptive to what is being said. Don't pre-judge the conversation and try to predict what he will say...he may surprise you!
Really listen to your fiance'
I'm sure you've heard this before....we have 2 ears and one mouth for a reason! When I say 'listen' I'm not just referring to the physical act of using the sense of hearing. I mean both hearing and absorbing what is being said. Along with listening to his words, also take in his tone of voice and body language. This will help you get the true meaning of what he's trying to communicate. And, please do not start planning your response before he stops talking! How can you respond accurately when you are trying to get your words together before he's finished?
Keep your conversation with your fiance' confidential
Your fiance' needs to be able to trust that what he shares with you will not be repeated (unless he gives you the ok to do so). Your mother, his mother, or your best friend are not parties in the conversation, and should not brought in after the fact. The relationship you have with your future husband is yours alone, and there is no room for meddlers and busy bodies!
Give and show respect
All men want to be respected. Show your fiance' that you respect his opinion and thoughts, even if you don't agree with them. Don't say things like 'that's dumb' or 'that doesn't make any sense' or 'are you crazy' when responding to him. This is sure fire way to shut down the lines of communication, that can be sometimes hard to rebuild.
Your Planning Assignment
Put these tips into practice! They will go a long way to ensure the lines of communication between you and your future husband remain open, and will help you have a healthy relationship. If you have issues in this area, seek out the advice of a professional therapist or counselor.
Thursday, July 5, 2012
Have you considered edible centerpieces for your wedding decor? Check out this article from Sleek Gossip, as well as a few pics, and let us know what you think!
Your Planning Assignment
Be open to the idea of an edible centerpiece! They can also be a nice gift for a guest at each table!
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
The team “Day-of Coordination” can be a somewhat misleading. Several brides who have reached out to us are looking for someone to just “pull it all together.” But a wedding coordinator does far more than show up on the day of your wedding, review what’s in your wedding binder, and make things happen! He or she gets involved weeks and months before your wedding and has a checklist of several things to do BEFORE your big day. Some of these tasks include:
- Meet with you to understand the vision you have for your wedding - you have been working on your wedding for months and months, so your coordinator needs to have a full understanding of your thoughts and ideas
- Review all of your contracts – this will tell your coordinator exactly what your vendors will provide, when final payments are due, etc.
- Contact and meet with all of your vendors to confirm the specifics of your wedding
- Put together a wedding day timeline to ensure the smooth flow of your wedding day – this timeline is very extensive and includes specifics like what time your hair and makeup will start (and how long it will take), any travel time between venues, and what time your venues will be available for setup.
- Visit your ceremony and reception venues to confirm the layout of the space and the setup you require – the day of your wedding is not the first time your coordinator has seen your venues!
- Meet with the wedding officiant to review the ceremony and prepare to conduct the wedding rehearsal – Some wedding officiants like to run the rehearsal completely themselves, while others will work alongside the wedding coordinator to do it. Either way, your coordinator and officiant work this out well before you arrive at the rehearsal.
- Learn the names of the important people in your family and bridal party, and be familiar with any specific family dynamics – If there are particular family situations that can affect your day, your wedding coordinator needs to be fully aware of them. For example, when the bridal party is introduced, your coordinator needs to know if your divorced parents will enter the reception together or with with someone else (if they have remarried).
And of course, on your wedding day, your coordinator and his or her staff will:
- Ensure your venues are set up correctly
- Confirm your vendors are ready for an on-time start
- Resolve any issues that may arise
- Make sure you and your bridal party are dressed and ready on time
- Direct the flow of their entire day (ceremony and reception)
- Assist in seating guests and making them feel at home
- Make sure all the little details are handled (cake knives on the cake table, bride’s comfortable shoes under the sweetheart table, etc).
This is just a general idea of what many planners and coordinators will provide with this kind of wedding package. Share with him or her if you require more so that your exact needs can be met.
Hiring a day-of coordinator really is an investment in your wedding. You have spent countless hours planning, deciding, arranging, and choosing; who should you trust to make sure all of your plans, decisions, arrangements, and choices are carried out the way you desire them to? Your mother or maid-of-honor may have with you throughout the entire planning process, but as your wedding approaches, it’s time for them to really step into the roles they are called to be. Your mother has been anticipating your special day, as well as her moment in the spotlight, for quite some time, and the last thing she needs to be concerned with is “who’s going to set up the room?”or “what time are the flowers being delivered?” And your maid-of-honor should be focused on making sure you are calm and collected, and ready to walk down the aisle!
Your Planning Assignment
Seriously consider this vital role in your wedding. A day-of coordinator can give you peace of mind and comfort knowing your plans are in the hands of a seasoned expert. Trust this responsibility to an experienced professional!
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
So you’ve started looking at bridal gowns (isn’t that fun?)….but what about your veil or headpiece? Here are a few options for you to consider….your choices are endless!
I love this option for semi-formal and formal weddings! You can choose to go with just a flyaway veil (with or without a blusher), or a cathedral length if you are having a very formal wedding, or any length in between. Here are a couple of examples of cathedral length and flyaway veils. To see all of the veil options available, check out Pinterest board called “Favorite Wedding Headpieces” at http://pinterest.com/anelegantaffair/favorite-wedding-headpieces/.
Do you want to look at feel like a queen on your wedding day? You can go simple or elaborate with a tiara, and can choose to include a veil that you can wear for the ceremony and remove for the reception.
A comb or clip is a great way to add a bit of flair to your hair! Pearls, rhinestones, or feathers…they can be a lovely addition to your beautifully styled wedding do!
Another option to consider is a headband. Check out the pic we’ve included below….it’s just one example of what is available!
Your Planning Assignment
Whatever you choose should line up with the formality of your wedding, the style of your dress, and of course, your own personal style! The consultant at the bridal salon is a great resource to help you decide what will be perfect for you! Happy Planning!